Like everyone I never know what to put in here. I'm a caring, generous, laid-back guy--kind of shy at first but with a bit of a wild streak once I relax. I'm over-educated and kind of thoughtful; I tend to be more interested in hanging out around the house, or at a museum, bookstore, or library than in going out to a club or something. Also, I'm a geek. There's no getting around that.

Virgo

Heavyset

5' 5 (1.65 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Single

No

No

Eyes

Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Visible Tattoo

Dark Brown

Cat

Yes

University Degree

Full-time

Education / Academic

Graduate Teaching Asst

With Parent(s)

All Is Calm

Yes - But Non Tobacco

Yes - Socially

Teachers Pet

Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly, Comedic

Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Games, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Drinking, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

I'm either boring or classicist, but: I don't see what's wrong with dinner and a movie, to be honest. Although you can't talk at the movies! So maybe a museum or just shopping or something instead.

Base-jumping.

Friendly, Cool, Raunchy, Goofy

Agnostic

Never

Socialist

Land a tenure-track job at an R1 university in either a cool urban center or an artsy college town. You asked.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Raunchy, Sadistic

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation, Horror, Thriller

Rock, Electronic, Pop, Ambient, Soul, Folk, Punk

News, Ancient, Biography, Classic, Comic, Computers, History, Humor, Philosophy, Political, Religious, Satire, Science Fiction, Technical

Um ... maybe a concert? Or a movie? Or just hanging out cooking and enjoying someone's company?

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

I'm shallow enough to admit that looks do matter, but they're far from the most important thing. I like people who like to talk about abstract things and who don't mind that my interests can be kind of obscure and minute. I like people who think books and music and movies are important, not just entertainment.

Friend, Date, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Group Sex, Just Wanna Fuck, Other