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What makes me, me? Well let me start with who I am not anymore, but once was....

Who I am not: I am not separation. Separation is only an illusion.
Separation from the God Source.
Separation from each other.
And separation from aspects of our self.

I am not secrecy. Withholding information from my partner & from myself.
With secrecy, my partner never gets to know who I truly am. Keeps me separated from the greater portion of myself.

I am not conditional love. I will love you, only so long as you fulfill my needs and expectations. I will withdraw my love, if you do not satisfy me.

I am not Expectation. I want, expect, and try to get my partner to fulfill my expectations and needs. I use my partner to satisfy my needs.

I am not manipulation. I use obvious or hidden manipulation so that my needs will be met, and so that I can remain protected from my own fears. I only see my partner as who I need them to be, not who they really are.

I am not dependency. I depend on and need someone
outside of myself in order to be happy.

Now I will introduce you to who I am!! :D

I am Integration, and reintegration. Everything and everyone are really all connected.

I am honesty, and openness. Total honesty with my partner.
With honesty, my partner gets to know who I truly am. Honesty means being 100% who I truly am.
I do not withhold a comment or information just to avoid hurting my partner, or to control the relationship.
I can never really know or predict what will hurt another or how they will react to my honesty.
Therefore, I should stop assuming responsibility for the other person's emotions, growth, & reactions to my honest non-manipulative communications.

I am no expectations. I trust and have no expectations from my partner.
I enjoy my partner, but without expectations.

I am allowingness. I allow my partner to be who they need to be. Only then can I see who they truly are.

I am absolute trust. I trust that everything that occurs is for my highest good. Therefore, I have no desire or need to control my partner.

And most importantly I am unconditional love. Even if you don't fulfill my needs and expectations,
I will still love you. I love you for who you are without trying to change you.

If this sounds interesting, shoot me a message. I always love meeting new people! :) no conditions, or judgement here, I'm an open book.

Now it's your turn, what makes you, YOU? :)

Love n light

Boogschutter

Athletisch

6' 0 (1.83 m)

Blauw

Blank

Single

Nee

Niet Zeker

Ogen

Zichtbare tatoeage

Donkerblond

Geen huisdieren

Ja

Havo

Voltijd

Sales / Marketing

asst. manager

Tussen de €30.000 en €45.000

Met Huisgeno(o)ten

Komen er soms vrienden langs

Nee

Ja - Als ik uitga

Klassenclown

Vriendelijk, Flirterig, Donker

Sport, Muziek, Films, Internet, Gezin, Koken, Computers

Met Vrienden zijn, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Relaxen, Een boek lezen, Naar een casino gaan

dinner and movie

Whatever feels right

Vriendelijk, Gek, Een Flirt

Agnostisch

Nooit

happiness

Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk, Gek

Komedies, Films, Sport

Horror

Rock, Metal, Blues

Comedy, Computers, Geschiedenis, Horror, Mysterie

Being spontaneous and going with whatever you feel screw plans life's 2 short.

Moed, Flirterig, Goed Uiterlijk, Humor, Intelligentie, Spontaniteit

No real preferences, just be you, and that's good enough for me! :D

Vriend, Date