I'm not here for quicky flings or one night stands. I want to meet a person of integrity and who knows who they are. I have a friend out west who is TG (pre op) and I am constantly amazed and impressed at how strong she is, intelligent she is and courageous she is. These are all qualities that make me interested in a person.

Key, of course, is the ability to laugh at yourself and at life in general. You should be able to take it on the chin and not fall to pieces.

Pre or Post op doesn't matter. What matters is that you are confident in who you are.

Laughter and enjoying the moment are very important. I don't live in a highly exciting world nor do I go party every night or have an extensive social network to float around. I usually keep my own company a lot of the time (spending most of it with my cats or my guitars).

Now that I've mentioned the guitars, having your own ear plugs would probably be a very good thing, as Martha would say.

Really, just want to meet the person that casts that spark and with whom I can share the day to day journey of this road we call life.

Don't be shy. Drop a line. You won't be diminished, marginalized of judged. I expect the same.

Gemini

A Few Extra Pounds

6' 0 (1.83 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Divorced

Yes - Not At Home

No

Eyes

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

Other

Cat

No

College Degree

Full-time

Legal

TBA

Alone, With Pet(s)

All Is Calm

Yes - Trying To Quit

Yes - Socially

Brain

Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious

Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Theater, Travel, Camping, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Going To A Concert

Something simple so we can check each other for chemistry, interest and a stash of body bags. Perhaps a coffee (I know, I know, just stop yourself...) and a walk in a quiet area. Talk a bit, see if the spark is there for a second date.

Friendly, Perfect, Obscure, Goofy, A Flirt

Spiritual But Not Religious

Never

Green Party

I've lived the life of goals, hopes and dreams. Crashed and burned. Now my only goals are to live each day with truth, smile & laugh as much as possible, share each days ups and downs with someone who makes my heart burn (not the same as give me heartburn!!)

Campy, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick, Raunchy

Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Re-runs

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama

Country, Rock, Blues, Jazz, Folk

Auto-biography, Biography, Fantasy, Fiction, Humor, Science Fiction

Spending a day with someone and being in "silly" mode. Laughter, Ice Cream, Coffee, Inviting Smiles, Touching hands and feeling a tingle...

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness

Oh good God. I'm not answering this question. Everytime I do the Universe delivers that exact person to me and I remember, "Watch what you wish for!!!". If you feel the urge to get to know me better, just surprise me with who you are. That is who I want to meet, YOU, not a somewhat distorted reflection of my wants.

Oh, and yes, I'm seeking LTR... go ahead... ask me WHY I'm looking for that here.

Date, Other